Waiting for recognition of Italian citizenship This has generated anxiety, fear, and discouragement among descendants who are following the recent changes in the rules of the process. In groups dedicated to the topic, reports of insecurity have become frequent, with participants stating that they have "lost hope" in the face of the uncertainties.
According to psychologist Cláudia Ferro, from Sorocaba, in the interior of São Paulo, the way each person goes through this period depends on the relationship they build with waiting. At the request of ItalianismShe analyzed posts in groups about Italian citizenship and offered guidance on how to cope emotionally with the process.
How to deal with uncertainty
The first step, according to Cláudia, is to recognize that waiting exists and that not everything is under the control of... applicantThe attempt to anticipate responses or control all developments tends to increase anxiety.
The psychologist recommends differentiating between what can be done now and what depends on external factors (administrative or judicial decisions, or legislative changes). In practice: organize documents, seek reliable information, and avoid excessive exposure to alarmist comments on social media.
"For some, the verdict has already been given: it's a waste of time. For others, the waiting time and the new laws, which apply to everyone in a similar situation, are taken personally," he stated.
Don't let citizenship paralyze life.
Cláudia points out that for many descendants, Italian citizenship represents more than just a document. Recognition involves family history, a sense of belonging, memory, and future plans.
“Everyone dreams of this blessed and welcome citizenship. It’s about reclaiming history, belonging, recognition, and finding another place in the world,” he said.
Because it carries this symbolic weight, the process can generate suffering when there is delay or uncertainty. The advice is to continue making feasible plans, maintain connections, take care of routines, and not make recognition the sole source of hope. For those who feel that anxiety has begun to affect sleep, work, or relationships, the recommendation is to seek help. professional help.
Waiting as part of the journey.
The psychologist quotes the South Korean philosopher. Byung-Chul HanThe author of "The Scent of Time" defended the importance of contemplation in a society marked by haste. "We are losing the power of contemplation. The art of lingering acts as an antidote to neoliberal acceleration," he stated.
For her, the pursuit of citizenship can also be seen as a reconnection with the history of her ancestors. “If today we are seeking our rights as Italian citizens, it is because, in each family, someone long ago crossed the ocean to build a new life, a family, a history. The time has come for us to write the continuation of this story.”
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