We have separated some of the traditions we have in Italy for “…and they lived happily ever after”
There are many customs related to the preparations and the wedding day, and just like Brazil, Italy has many traditions, some of which are quite similar. Each of them is part of a rich historical background and bringing this to a wedding makes the experience even more interesting and unique for the guests.
Below you can find a list of Italian traditions to personalize your Destination Wedding in Italy using the best of Italian style!
1- The march of the bride and groom
The couple's departure from the church is made with a lot of noise. Basically the car used to search for them, honks several times, and for long periods of time, not as a way of alerting people on the street, but as a way of warding off all bad energy!
2- Serenade
It is a declaration of love sung by the groom to the bride the day before the wedding. It's a beautiful tradition that continues in Italy to this day. And pay attention, men: the serenade also serves as a great idea for a creative marriage proposal!
3- Groom's tie
In some Italian cities it is common to cut the groom's tie into small pieces and distribute it among the guests (usually men) in exchange for a cash contribution to the bride and groom. It is a tradition that is not used as much today, but it can still be seen at some weddings.
4- Rice
Rice is a symbol of fortune and abundance and when thrown at the bride and groom at the end of the ceremony, this act represents a shower of fertility for the new family in formation. In addition to rice, it is common to throw flower petals.
5- Bouquet
According to Italian traditions, the bouquet must be purchased by the groom's mother and delivered on the morning of the wedding. At the end of the party, the bride gathers a group of single friends to throw the bouquet and the one who catches it will be the next to get married – just like in Brazil!
6- Souvenir
The habit was imported from France in the late 15th century, but entered wedding tradition when the Prince of Naples, Vittorio Emanuele III, married Princess Elena of Montenegro and gave small gifts to his party guests as a way of saying thank you. to their presence.
7- The day to get married
There is an Italian saying that goes “You don’t get married or leave on the day of Venus (Friday) or Mars (Tuesday) – “né di Venere né di Marte ci si sposa o si parte”. Therefore, the most coveted days for a wedding by Italians are Saturdays or Sundays. Remembering that we are just talking about a tradition, which logically does not need to be applied to your Destination Wedding in Italy!
8- Covered almonds
Symbols of health, wealth, happiness, long life and fertility, in Italy we call almonds covered with a thick layer of sugar 'confetti'. They are present at practically all parties and would not be missed at the wedding. They are distributed in bags or boxes, and in odd numbers as a way of wishing for an indissoluble marriage.
9- The alliances
According to legend, the wedding ring is worn on the left hand because the ancient Egyptians believed that the vein responsible for carrying feelings started from the left ring finger and reached the heart. Therefore, as a way of guaranteeing fidelity, the finger should be 'tied'. Italian tradition says that the groom must carry and keep the rings safe until the moment of the ceremony. If one of the bride and groom has a brother or sister as a witness, it is this relative's responsibility to buy the rings. It's also worth remembering that wearing rings before the wedding brings bad luck, you know? Save that joy for your special day!
10- Italian Wedding Cake
The typical Italian wedding pie is made with puff pastry, filled with pastry cream and covered in a layer of powdered sugar. What makes it more special is that it is assembled in front of the guests, at party time, providing a totally different experience to the pie moment, so no one will forget!
These are some of the traditions we have here, whether you believe it or not, but you must know that love is the main ingredient to reach “…and they lived happily ever after”
By Sandra Santoro/Mariée
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March 12, 2022 at 07:28 pm
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